Women: Who's defining your beauty?

In today’s society a large amount of society’s influences or role models are those we see on television, movies, soaps, etc. Follow me now. However, at times society fails to realize that Hollywood has the power to provide this flawless, perfect persona. Hollywood is able to makeover the ugliest ducklings and transform them into beautiful swans to fit in their flawless world. Nevertheless, we hardly know at what cost it takes for that transformation to happen, so then in the real world, people oddly surmise that the Hollywood look is the ideal appearance everyone should strive for and at whatever cost. Primarily these are thoughts that roam a typical shallow guy's mind and a insecure or obese woman's mind especially insecure and obese women.


Women should carefully examine their reasons for wanting to lose weight or enhance their beauty. Many women loose weight primarily for the wrong the reasons. These are the following top reasons: 1) So they could feel comfortable in public places, 2) Get attention from the opposite sex, and 3) So they can brag about themselves (i.e. all that and a bag of chips) I think losing weight, if necessary should be done to be fit and healthy. It seems there is a correlation to women’s self esteem level and whether women succumb to the demands of what a beautiful woman of society is.

Come on ladies, you should have high self esteem not LACK of self esteem. Women should love themselves for how they are created and built inside and out. I say that to say this, if you are women and you are obese, loose weight to be healthy and fit for yourself. Do not loose weight to make anyone like you. If you are a women and you are insecure about yourself, embrace your beauty and worth. If you don’t, who will? What do you think?